I have a love-hate relationship with the different chat groups I am part of in my WhatsApp world.

Our Telkom line has been down and with it my link to the outside world, I’ve been on edge.. no really it’s all I can get on my mobile. I mean what else do we use our phones for. Calls? Pfft

I really have a love hate relationship with all the different chat groups I am part of in my WhatsApp world. Whilst these groups can be a pain I find most of them entertaining, but also find myself wondering how some people managed to get as far as they have in life.

In these groups we find people who believe they can say what they want, when they want and how they want. This can lead to issues if you think how sense of humours differ and where words and sentences are read in a different tones. The hubster has decided enough was enough, the rants in our neighbourhood chat group were just too much, he was out.

Referring to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, the need for security, acceptance and love all fall under these WhatsApp groups albeit in varying degrees.

  1. One does not simply leave a WhatsApp group.
  2. Just say goodbye and try not to rage and leave, I have seen this done many times and by grown-ups not even children so I’m referring to anyone over 25.
  3. Make sure you know the groups rules and what the group is for i.e. safety, neighbourhood, friendship etc.
  4. Do not assume everyone thinks the same as you, has the same beliefs or follows the same religion.
  5. We can at this point all assume that Jacob Zuma and Donald Trump can be made fun of but try keep politics to a minimum people.
  6. When posting pics try keep those sexy ones to yourself and if it’s a whole bunch of pics rather go ahead and post them directly to Facebook.
  7. Respect the admin. This role comes with great responsibility.
  8. Love them or hate them  (The Admin of the WhatsApp group that is) accept that there is a role for them in a lot of instances.
  9. Don’t post anything you wouldn’t say to the person, hiding behind your phone makes you a big bully. Therefore if you are angry step away from the phone and breathe, maybe try your hand at yoga or breakdancing and then wait 10 minutes before replying.
  10. Keep it positive! There is just too much negativity in the world.

If you are not sure then refer to the T.H.I.N.K principal one that I am trying to instil in my own family, whether it is in person or online try it.

T- is it True
H- is it Helpful
I – is it Inspiring
N- is it Necessary
K- is it Kind