Having a 5 year old going onto 19, I have been in some situations and the most recent was the please can I have a sleepover… What to do, what to do? For me it is easy. My husband and I (still not sure how much I can involve him in my thoughts here) have come to a conclusion. Quite simply, we do not do sleepovers full stop. (See what I did there to focus on my “point”)